I used to hate Umbrellas...

I love Rain... and i hate Umbrellas...


I've always hated umbrellas.  I don't like people walking with umbrellas in the streets. It feels like they are trying to hide themselves, to stay away from everything. Umbrellas are like cages and people with umbrellas look like those poor birds that have lost their freedom.


I've always hated umbrellas, but this year... The rains this year seemed lonely and sad. Each drop of rain running down  my window made me think of you. All those memories would keep going through my mind. Being away from you was hard, but the rain made it even harder. And one day i realized that I went out of the house holding an umbrella in my hand. I was walking down the streets hiding from people, from the trees, from myself. I felt like i'm invisible, away from everyone and everything.

But was that what i really wanted? No, i wanted to be next  to you, no matter the weather i knew that i love you. And i'm sure that it was your Love that made me smile again, that made me forget about the umbrella.... And i was running under the rain again, feeling happy and so close to you.


Maybe I don't hate umbrellas anymore, but i will never hold an umbrella , unless you're here with me...








                                                                                                                             © LiLit Ghazaryan

... այն երազկոտ աղջկնակը

  Ինքս էլ չհասկացա թե ինչպես ստացվեց, բայց ամեն ինչ շուռ եկավ, փոխվեց դանդաղ, բայց հանկարծակի: Չհասկացա էլ թե ինչու այն փոքրիկ երազկոտ աղջկնակը լուռ ծածկեց դուռն ու հեռացավ, այնքան զգուշորեն գնաց, որ նույնիսկ չնկատեցի նրա բացակայությունը: Պարզապես մի օր հասկացա, որ իր տեղը դատարկվել էր, բայց դատարկությունն էլ երկար չտևեց: Փոքրիկ երազկոտ աղջկան, որը սիրում էր թախծել աշնանային անձրևի հետ, փոխարինեց մեկ ուրիշը:
  Փոխարինողն ավելի ուժեղ էր, շատ ավելի ուժեղ քան թախծոտ աղջնակը, բայց նա էլ էր սիրում աշնանային անձրևն ու անձրևից հետո քաղաքում տարածվող խոնավ բույրը:Փոխարինողն ավելի հաստատակամ էր ու ինքնավստահ, բայց նա էլ էր սիրում երազել:
   Նա հենց նույն թախծոտ աղջնակն էր, պարզապես մեծացել էր, հարմարվել այն ամենին ինչ առաջ չէր հանդուրժում: Սկսել էր ապրել այնպես, ինչպես ապրում են բոլորը, երբ հեռանում են իրենց աշնանային հեքիաթից, բայց միևնույն է չէր մոռացել անձրևի երգը: Նա դեռ նստում էր պատուհանի մոտ ու երկար զրուցում ապակու վրայով հոսող կաթիլների հետ...

Is It Really Easier To Fall In Love in the Spring?

... It's Spring again
Sunshine, flowers, warm breeze... and Love...
  
 You get excited when the flowers start to bloom, you start wearing flip flops again, put on bright clothes. Something makes you happy and you start enjoying every little think around you when the spring comes.

  

Well, there's now scientific proof that your heart doesn’t just get happy about the little things, it’s also  ready for love. When the weather gets warmer and we see more sunlight, the melatonin in our body decreases, which leads to an increase in energy and vitality. That brings mood changes, which makes easier to find a relationship. 

All I Want From This Life Is ...

  It was a nice autumn day. I woke up early that day. It was raining. The small window was open and I could feel the soft wind and the scent of the rain.
  He was still sleeping. Looking at him, with his eyes calmly closed, I thought that at that moment the entire world was so good and beautiful. I could hear him breathing, which made me feel so safe.
  The rain, the small window and him, sleeping next to me, that's all i needed for that very second. And i knew that it was one of the happiest moments of my life. Maybe that moments itself was my entire life, the result of all my dreams and hopes.

  It started raining even harder. I closed the window, then went back to bed and closed my eyes again. He was still sleeping.
  What a wonderful morning it was. And how wonderful it is that sometimes the most simple things make you feel like you are the happiest person in the world.
  We expect so much from ourselves, from our life. We dream about happy family life, big houses and expensive cars, about money and good job. But after buying a big house we want a bigger one. Getting a good job, we start looking for a better one. And during this long and difficult marathon we never notice the smallest, but probably the most important things in our lives.


   I woke up early that morning...  And I understood that all I want from this life is to wake up every morning with him sleeping next to me...

Dedicated to S.M.

Will you marry me?

The question that changes two lives...

Marriage proposal is an important thing in everybody's life, and if you're lucky enough, it happens only once. Every girl wants it to be very romantic and original. And all the guys try to find a new way to propose to their loved once.


Some people prefer to propose on special days, like Christmas, New Year's Eve, Valentine's day, even on Halloween. But trust me guys, most of the girls want that day to be special itself, so it would be nice to pick a random day and make it special with your marriage proposal. Years later there will be one more day to remember, one more reason to have a romantic dinner together.



Proposals can be private or public. It mostly depends on a couple, their characteristics, likes and dislikes. Many girls like to show their love to everyone: "Let the world know how much we love each other". In this case public marriage proposal will be great. You can propose in front of many people, after the movie or play, on the dance floor,  using a microphone, in the plane or just in the middle of a street. It will be also very romantic if you  write your own article in a magazine or newspaper that your girlfriend reads. It can be something very simple. Just write "Will you marry me?" on the entire page. Don't forget about the names, so she knows it's written by you. Street posters or a skywriter, which will spell your proposal for everyone around to see will be also very surprising.

2011

New Year's Eve is like every other night; 

there is no pause in the march of the universe, no breathless moment of silence among created things that the passage of another twelve months may be noted; and yet no man has quite the same thoughts this evening that come with the coming of darkness on other nights...

Every year when New Year's Eve comes we start thinking about the passing year. What have we done during those 12 months, what have we achieved or lost. We think about our failures, sad and happy days, people we met, friends we lost. We try to do our best to start the new year in a better way, in a new way. We make new plans and promise ourselves to finish the old once, which we couldn't complete during the last year. We have new dreams and hopes connected with the new year. But sometimes we forget that New Year doesn't mean to start everything over, to forget what we had last New Year.

So this New 2011 Year I don't wish only new things to you,

I wish your old friends to be with you,

I wish your old dreams to come true,

I wish your old love to grow...

And all the good things that will happen to you,

Will be old, good memories next New Year too... ♥

Am I really in Love?

Have you ever asked yourself: “Do I really love him/her?”

Turns out there are a lot of ways to check it. If you try to find something on Internet, you can see that there are a lot of tests and quizzes, which are  supposed to help you to get your answers. You may also find articles which describe step by step how to figure out whether you are in love or not.  But do you think they can be helpful?

Love is something very individual. There aren’t any common rules for all the couples.

People say: “If you really love somebody, you want them to be happy, no matter where and no matter with whom”

I personally don’t agree with this. When you love someone, you want them to be nowhere else but right next to you. You can call it selfishness, jealousy, stupidity, call it whatever you want, but it is like that. When you love that person, you simply can’t imagine your life without him/her, and there’s nothing more difficult than to see your loved one with someone else.

I’ve been criticizing since I started writing this post and you might ask me what’s my opinion about this.

I think that when it comes to real love, not lust (a sexual desire) or infatuation (when you are "crazy" about them, but this feeling usually fades over time) you are more than sure that it is true.

When you really love someone you never ask yourself: “Do I really love him/her?”

It's as simple and as difficult as that.